Nigerian psychologist, psychotherapist, inspirational writer and transformational speaker, SRI George has written top 10 conditions why you should not get married.
If you fall into any of these top 10 conditions, don’t get married.
1. Don’t marry for s*x.
2. Don’t marry because you are of age.
3. Don’t marry because you are getting old.
4. Don’t marry because you are lonely. 5. Don’t marry because you need someone to support you financially.
6. Don’t marry because you mistakenly got pregnant.
7. Don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the person.
8. Don’t marry because of family pressures.
9. Don’t marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown and celebrations you see.
10. Don’t marry because all your friends are getting married.
But only get married because you are in love with a person who is in love with god. Marry because he or she is your best friend, and is spiritually, mentally and emotionally matured. So when tomorrow comes and love is tested by time, he or she can still be with you and make you smile…… we need men and women to start becoming aware on how to deal with each other with respect. This post also implies to both male and female, but focuses more on women, because they are often the ones on the receiving end. Love is reciprocal.